"Earthly Angels"

"Earthly Angels".... Who are they? What are they?

There are many different kinds but.... ones I am writing about today are loving, tender hearted, strong, selfless, considerate, and LOVE their children!In fact "Earthly Angels" love their children so much... that they want to give them EVERY thing in the world and sometimes that means they place their baby in the arms of adoptive parents! These "Earthly Angels" know they cannot provide a stable home with a father and give their baby all they need. So these "Earthly Angels" are willing to go through HELL so their babes can have more and... all they need!!

I am sure after going through adoptions with these moms and seeing their pain, it is much harder than loosing a child in some ways! I go with Katie every Thursday night to a support group meeting for young women going through an unplanned pregnancies. I hear and see the pain these "Angels" go through.

There was a "Angel" last night at the support group and she explain how she had lost love ones before in her in her life. She said it was a sad times but... she felt like she had closer at the funeral but.... When she placed her baby in the arms of her baby's other mom.... It was a huge loss! She felt as though she did not have closer because her baby was still here on this earth but yet, she did not have her! She went on to explain her grieving process. The different stages she went through. This "Angels" has since gone on to be married in the Temple and has a wonderful life but... she said there will always be a part of her that is missing. She also said from the moment she choice and met the adoptive couple she knew they were to be her baby's parents. Does she regret that she loved her baby so much and wanted to give her baby more... and all she deserved? No.

It does sadden me to say that allot of the birth dads do not want to be part of their children lives! I think part of it is the not knowing and they do not want to show emotions. But unfortunately some just do not care! Men do not have the bond mother feels from the moment the baby is conceived! It also saddens me to say there are moms that do not care and continue with there addictions during and after their pregnancy and do not take care of their kids. This is painful for me to see or hear about. These moms are selfish and they are only thinking of them selves!

"Earthly Angels" have a bond that is so strong and it seems to grow. The love and protection that they have for their child never goes away!

The "Earthly Angels" at this support group, have very open adoptions and have a amazingly close relationship with the adoptive mom and dad! These babies are brought up knowing their biologic moms love them more than words can describe! That have more love then some babies!

It use to be that adoptions were a very ugly thing that no one talked about. But if done through the church it can be a very spiritual experience. Very Open!

As I have watched Katie with her relationship with her sweet little girl... It is tender. Katie has the best relationship with her little girls parents! Katie was at the Temple the day her little girl was sealed to her parents! The adoptive parents talk to their little girl about Katie, and let her know she has a older brother and a new little brother to come! They all speak often on the phone since they live in Utah. It is a special relationship that Katie has with this family.

What a blessing for this little girl to grow up knowing how much she is loved!

At our meeting last night there were many tears and emotion. The tears I noticed came with words of love... The sad emotions came from feelings and words of "Earthly Angels" wrongly judged!!!!

For ANYONE to say that that an "Earthly Angel" does not care about their baby or love their baby is WRONG!!!! For ANYONE to say a "Earthly Angel" just "Gave their baby up for Adoption" is WRONG!!!! NO "EARTHLY ANGELS" just... "Gives their baby up for adoption".... "Earthly Angels "Place their baby into the LOVING hands and arms" Of those moms who are unable to have babies come from their tummy, these special moms and dads babies come from "EARTHLY ANGELS"!!!!