Saturday, December 18, 2010

"A Christmas Poem"

Rhett's Empty room and closet!

"A Missionary Christmas"

I skipped the sales after Thanksgiving, the thrill just wasn't there.
No pictures taken with Santa Clause, My decorations had no flair.
His presents are shoes, shirts and ties, two suits and socks... no fun.
Iv' bought him all white clothing because....
This year I am giving Christ my son!
Iv'e spent more time in the Temple, my testimony stirred,
Iv'e read November Ensign, felt strength come from HIS words.
Our family prays more frequently, my tears are quick to run.
Abraham seems closer because....This year I give Christ my son!
I wonder how those Lamanite mothers, gave their sons to war?
Or how the Pioneers chose Zion, their sacrifice was so much more!
My loss will be his presence, I'll miss his smile a ton,
For two years we will pray for him...I'm giving Christ my son!
I stare at his face when he's not looking, I memorized his eyes, their shine.
He always hungered for the part of HIM, that makes his soul divine.
The stories and lessons he has always heard, his choice and mine are one.
I'll put my faith in Gods hands....This year, I am giving Christ my son!
Past gifts have lost their glitter;
I think I finally understand Christ's birth, should be celebrated by giving HIM a hand.
It's because I know Christ lives and reigns that all his packing's done.
My gift has taken years to make....This year... I'm giving Christ my son!
I know there's one who understands, the sacrifice I'm making.
Who knows the gift I willingly give., the toll it will be taking.
For HE has done it all before, GREATER love-there could be no more.
For years ago God gave to me, HIS only begotten Son!
The hands I washed, the hands I held, the hands I taught to pray;
Now knock on doors to find the ones who will listen to what he'll say.
Because I know Christ needs him, until all the gatherings done....


My gift has taken years to make....
This year... I am giving Christ my son!

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

Time to say "Ciao"! (Chow)


Pops final good bye!
The Best of cousins!!!
Walker saying goog bye!
Rhett's best friend!

Rhett's Aunt Jami!
Cita!!! Rhett's Grandma!




A PROUD Tom Scheurn!
Walker is so proud of his brother!
Joe, Erin, Emma, Noah and Gwenie!

Blake and Tanya!
Gavin will miss Uncle Rhett
We are only missing Vance, Brogan and Grey-Bee Baby!
Which one is the Missionary!!!
Opening a few Christmas Gifts!
Cheers!!!!!
CHEERS!!!!!!!
A little toast between Walker and Brittany!
Family Picture! We had to have Posey with us some way!!!!!
President Andersen!

A Proud little brother and a proud Pops!
We all missed Posey! Proud Brothers!

Sushi Night!
This post is a post I have been excited to share, BUT... also a post I have dreaded as well!
How can you feel both happy, excited yet.... sadness,and some fear at the same time?
If you want to understand what I am saying.... Send a Missionary off for two years
This post really started last night!
Rhett really wanted to have some good sushi before he left so... Since Rhett would be gone for two years Pops of course honored his request and we went to Rhett's favorite sushi restaurant! It was "DELISH"!
We all then came home and everyone change into their church clothes and waited for President Andersen to come over to set Rhett apart as a full time missionary! This was sweet sacred time, a night I will never forget! I remember so well when Joe and Walker were set apart and it is something parents never forget!
The only thing that would of made this night completly perfect would of been if Posey and Ben could of come to share this night with Rhett! I missed Posey so much that I had to go get a picture of her and add it to our pictures we took through out the night! I could of used her support with all of the boys! Posey I miss you!
Prior to the blessing and setting apart,President Andersen spoke to all of us! The spirit in the room was sweet and tender! After the blessing Rhett shared his testimony. I think he was a little over whelmed but he spoke from his heart and it was wonderful to listen to "Elder Scheurn! Rhett looked so handsome!
After President Andersen left we all grabbed a bottle of IBC root beer and celebrated! It was cheers to Elder Scheurn!
We opened a few gifts and enjoyed our last night with Elder Scheurn!
Everyone left but Walker and before I knew it I was sitting on the sofa wondering where everyone went! I then realized that Walker had gone back to Rhett's room for a heart to heart talk. I know it was very emotional for Rhett as he shared some of his worries and concerns. When Walker left I went back to Rhett's room and he was siting on the side of his bed with tears flooding his cheeks! Rhett said he was a bit scared but yet he knew this is what he wanted to do! I told him if he was NOT a little scared I would be worried about him! We shared some one on one time and then I told Rhett I would make him a nice bed on the sofa in my room so he could come in our room and stay and visit with Tom and I all night if he wanted to! I talked him into coming into our room and we visited some more! It was one in the morning by this time and the alarm was set for 5:45 am and it came quick!
Tom, Rhett and I got ready packed the luggage in the car and we were off to the airport. We got checked in and headed up toward the gate! When we got to the area where he would go through security Joe and his family, Blake and his family and Mom and Ralph were waiting for Rhett!
Not long after Jami,Myles and Forrest arrived! Then not to long after that Heath, Rain and Ivan came to say good bye as well!
There were many tears, hugs, kisses, good bye and pictures as Elder Scheurn was saying his final Good Bye! Everyone gave a last kiss and hug to Elder Scheurn as tears were streaming down every one's faces! I then walked with Elder Scheurn all the way through the security line and when it was his turn to give his I.D. and ticket I gave Elder Shceurn A HUGE HUG AND KISS not just once but maybe five times!! I did not want to let go! THIS IS MY BABY!! I am sure the huge long line of people that were waiting were wondering why the line was not moving!!! I really did not care at this point! I just did not want to let go! It was a blessing I was able to have the last few minutes alone with my PRECIOUS Elder!!! I then stood a little ways back and watched him walk away until I could no longer see him!! Needless to say at this point I was a mess!
As Tom and I walked to our car there was not a lot said! I feel sure Tom knew that he could say nothing to make me feel better at this point! Nor could I say anything to him to help him feel better! It was a some what quiet ride home!
On the way home Tom and I stopped by Walmart to pick up a few more things I needed to put in Elder Scheurn's Christmas boxes and we returned home!
I was trying to finish Elder Scheurn's Christmas boxes and Tom saw me struggling and so he helped me pack up the boxes as I finished wrapping a few things! We got the boxes put together and Tom went to the Post office to mail them! Tom is amazing and knew how hard the day would be for me so he took the whole day off! That is love!! We finished cleaning out Rhett's room and bathroom! It was so nice to have all the help and support Tom gave me ALL day! BY THE WAY... I LOVE TOM SCHEURN and would not know what to do without him!!
I know that it was Rhett's choice to serve a mission! I know if he looks at him self the way his Heavenly Father looks at him.... He will be so happy and this will be the best two years of his life!!
ELDER SCHEURN.... I LOVE YOU and I AM SO PROUD OF YOU!! I WILL CARRY A CONSTANT PRAYER IN MY HEART for you!!!! I WILL MISS YOU! Two years is nothing compared to the Eternities we have together!! Work hard and SPRINT to the end and I will be there waiting!
CHOW!!!!

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

The Count Down!

The Sunday Rhett spoke in church!
At the end of the night on Monday we were finishing up cleaning and turning out the lights and.... Tom and Rhett decided to see who had the biggest "Beach Balls" (family joke)


Rhett has wrestled the last 3 years with "Kansas"!
President Pugmire!
Conner Johnson! LONG Friends!
David and Jami and their boys!
Gwenie!
Gannon Conway still trying to get Rhett's watch!
Some more close friends!
Good Friends!
Monya and Eric! Dear Friends! Rhett since he was been a little boy has promised Monya this day!
Mr. and Mrs Clause came early to visit Rhett! We LOVE them!!!

When Rhett had a month to go before he left on his mission.... I kept telling my self "I just can't believe he only has a month before he reports to the Mission Training Center"! I was so stressed with that thought! But I said what am I going to do and how am I going to feel when Rhett only has a week before he leaves! I can say I felt MORE stressed! Then the thought came to me what will I do when Rhett only has 24 hours left before Rhett leaves! Well now that time has come and I feel peace and happiness BUT... Also the reality has hit and as happy as I am for him... I have to say that there is a big part of me that is very emotional!! It truly is the happiest sad for me!
We have been very busy preparing for Rhett to leave so I have not had a lot of time to think about this day! But as I think about Rhett I just can't quit thinking this is my baby! He can not be old enough to serve a mission! WHAT AM I GOING TO DO WITHOUT HIM????
Tom and Rhett both spoke in church on Sunday. Tom had a difficult time as he spoke. He was over come by emotions many times in his talk. The spirit was strong as he spoke. When Tom was done Blake played a BEAUTIFUL missionary medley on the piano. I was doing fine until I looked up to see Tom and Rhett sitting on the stand just completely over come with the spirit! Both Ton and Rhett just sat with their heads down with STREAMS of tear rolling down their cheeks! It is so hard to deny the spirit!
When Blake was done playing Rhett stepped up to the pulpit with his new black suit looking SO HANDSOME... and a FULL heart and still wiping tears away.... Rhett calmly looked up and said... "Well that was okay"! Everyone chuckled but it was so cute!
Rhett was asked to talk about, how the Aaronic Priesthood and how it prepares you for a mission! I was worried Rhett would only speak for five minutes but he spoke for a good 25 minutes and as he spoke the words and scriptures just rolled out of his mouth! Rhett spoke with such authority! He explained how the Aaronic priesthood was kind of like he practising for wrestling and football and the games and wresting tournaments were like receiving the Melchizedek Priesthood! Rhett spoke of his Temple experience and so many other things! But I do have to go back and say... you would think that giving speeches was his job! He looked out to the congregation and he did not seem uneasy or scared at all! Again his talk was BEAUTIFUL! I kept thinking if he speaks this well now...I can't wait until he returns home and speaks! I was so proud of him he did an amazing job!
We then had some of Rhett's cousins and a few others over for soft tacos! We enjoyed the time we all had with him!
Rhett has been trying to squeeze in so many things before he leaves! The movies and bowling with his dad spending time with his brothers and texting and talking to Posey over the phone, and friends pretty much 24/7 !!!
On Monday night we had a open house for Rhett so anyone that wanted to come over to say their last good-byes to him could do that and visit and have some cookies and milk! It was a very nice evening! There were maybe fifty or so people who came over as you can see in the pictures! Much to my surprise Santa and Mrs, Clause came over as well! That was a treat Santa came a little early for Rhett!!
So back to the count down... I am just not sure I can do this! As a mom I just want to put my motherly claws out and continue to watch and protect him! But I know Heavenly Father can watch Rhett better than I can so I know I just have to try to have some faith and know all will be well!
Elder Nolan Rhett Scheurn... Your mom LOVES you more than words can say! I am so PROUD of you and so happy for you! Serve with ALL you have! Rhett know I will carry a prayer in my heart for you every minute while you are gone! I WILL MISS YOU SO MUCH! But I do know you if you surrender all you have to the Lord you will be blessed not just here but in the Eternities! Remember it is all about the Eternities my PRECIOUS son! Again I LOVE YOU!!

Monday, December 6, 2010

Good Bye, Love Gavin!

I thought this was such a sweet tender picture!
Tanya texted it to me and I just had to post it!!
Tanya has a grease board calender in their home that she keeps reminders of thing that are coming up that she needs to remember!
So she put a reminder on her board when Rhett speaks in church!
At some point and time she went by and noticed that someone added to that date!
Yes it was Gavin Rhett's eight year old nephew! Rhett and Gavin are very close! I feel sure Gavin will no longer want to spend the night at Pops's and Grannies once Rhett leaves! I know Gavin will miss his Uncle Rhett so much....And I am sure all of Rhett 's other nieces ans nephews are going to miss their Uncle Rhett so very much as well!
Good-Bye, Love Gavin!!!

Friday, December 3, 2010

When I Think Of....


WHEN I THINK OF...

*Origins "Gloomaway Grapefruit Souffle"
*Watkins Body Products
*Light Pink Lipstain
*Insulated Drinking Glasses
*Plastic food saving dishes
*Wintergreen Life Savers
*Red Hot Bubble Gum
*Smartie Suckers
*Carmel Scott Chews with Nuts
*Bulk Chocolate
*Sour Peppermint Chiclets
*Sugar Cookies
*Carmel Corn
*Blogs
*Feels Like Home"
*Tye-Dye T-shirts
*Dried Coconut
*Bottle Coke
*Ups and downs with children
*Chicken, Beans and Tortillas
*Ables Tacos
*Yogurt and Fruit WITH Coconut
*Yogurt-Land
*Heart to Heart Conversations
*The Name"Margo"
*Cut off T-shirts
*Bra's... Blinged and Un-Blinged
*Laughing
*Crying
*Curly Hair
*No Hair
*Long Hair
*Hair Falling out
*Help
*Ranch Market
*Service
*A Walk On The Beach
*Hot Tubs
*Funny Husbands
*Mexico
*Eyelashes
*Fake Boobs
*Pies in a Jar
*Bath and Body Works Hand Sanitizer
*Mayos
*Popcorn to go
*Long Drives
*FUN
*Rumbi's
*"TOMS" (shoes)
*Nordtrom's Rack
*Purses
*Tiffany Jewelry
*Bracelet Stands
*Hobby Lobby
*Bilateral Mastectomies
*Breast Reconstruction
*Chemotherapy
*Radiation
*Pink
*Ports
*Jokes (about us and others)
*Missionary Stories
*Love and Support
*The Gospel
I was thinking about a special friend tonight and I started writing down things that came to my mind as I thought about her... And I was also thinking about things we share! The list just kept going as I thought about her!
ALL of these things on this list make me think of Monya Williams! My Bon Bon! It seems as though many things remind me of her! So many of these things I would of never know about if Monya would of not either given them to me or... did for me!!! Some things on this list are things we both have experienced and shared! Monya has been a dear friend for well over twenty years! I am so thankful for every minute we have shared.I am thankful she has let me know about all her favorite things and am thankful she has shared them with me. But what I am most thankful for are the things she has shared from her heart!
There are things on this list that I am not as thankful for BUT.... In the Eternal perspective of life.... I know they have helped us grow in many ways! Where there is struggle...There is strength!! They have brought us even closer together. The things that I am talking about I am sure you can guess what they are BUT...It is not who we are... Some of these reminders are things that are part of our MORTAL LIFE.... BUT....
Not our ETERNAL LIFE!!
Some we can take with us through the Eternities and some are just for convenience while we are here in mortality! Thanks to Monya she has taught me about things that make my mortal life fun and helpful....Some things on this list are life lessons for mortality... But what I am most thankful for are the things she has shared with me that I will take through the ETERNITIES!!!
I am sure most anyone will be able to figure out what we will take with us through the ETERNITIES and what we will leave here in Mortality!
I do have to say.... I wish we could take our pink lip stain!
Bon Bon... You are Precious and I love you with ALL my heart!!