I have heard and read in the past year or so about a new mental illness call......"HYPER- SEXUAL -MENTAL DISORDER"!!!!!!! I am not a doctor...But I did learn in college about different mental illness and had a year of medical terminology,Psyc
hology and many other classes as I was preparing to work in the operating room along the side of a doctor! Does this make me an authority in mental health issue...NO! I am sure I am wrong BUT..... I also feel there is not a new mental illness that is called Hyper-Sexual Mental Disorder! I understand addictions! Yes there are people who struggle in sex and pornography addictions! In my calling of eight plus years....working with Family Service and ALL of the addiction and recovery programs.... I do know that addictions can be very hard to over come no matter if it is a natural processed addiction or a chemical or alcohol addiction! BUT.....I think they should name this new addiction, "NOT HYPER SEXUAL DISORDER"! I think they should name it HYPER-I HAVE A HUGE EGO-DON'T CARE WHO I HURT-PRIDE-I CAN PAY ANYONE ANY AMOUNT OF MONEY-NO STANDARDS AND MORALS- I AM A DOG AND I FINALLY GOT CAUGHT-DISORDER!!!! SERIOUSLY.... Every time I hear this term "Hyersexual Mental Disorder" I literally see red flames!!! I know their have been women who have cheated on their spouse and they are just called.....How do I put it......I will leave it at immoral and a tramp!!! Even in Hollywood!! But when it comes to a man in Hollywood or a big sports star or in government places....It is now called "Hypersexual Mental Disorder!! Yes I will agree that they have a mental disorder....But it is not a hyper sexual disorder!! It is that their head is just way to big along with their prideful non-caring ego!! These men do not think that they have to have ANY RULES, STANDARDS and MORALS!!!! THEY DO NOT CARE!!!! These men just KNOW... that standard and morals just do not apply to them!!! I really think....they think they are of a higher law!!! AND THEN....When they are caught...... They stay in their house until there publicist can find a "SO CALLED" rehabilitation center that will build tunnels and canopies all around so these men can enter like cowards!! Do you think they really have a change of heart???? UUHHMMMM.... NO!!! They are just buying time till things die down a little and then they get a "HYPER SEXUAL MENTAL DISORDER" diagnosis AND THEN.... The publicist gets them to say"SORRY" and no one is allowed to ask any questions of them at this time either!!!!!!! REALLY..... HYPER SEXUAL MENTAL DISORDER!!! The only real diagnosis that these men have or should I say caused is....Complete trauma and betrayal! They have ruin their wives and children's thought of a family! It causes such long tern mental issues for their families and sometime they never recover from the hurt and pain!! It is hard for wives and children to ever trust again!!!! The daughters of these men will think this is what could happen to me if I get married, and when and if... they do get married they have a relationship where they feel like they have to be a detective instead of a wife!!!! The boys standards are weakened because they think well if my dad did made bad choices and eventually remarried and come out okay so.... if I get caught I will still work it out some way OR they never marry!Kids that come from these kinds of family have a higher rate of alcohol and drug abuse!! The wives and mothers end up taking the hit ALWAYS!!! They are left trying to forgive the husband for not only what he did to her but their children and their whole family!!!! The wife is left wondering what she did wrong!!! Let me make this crystal clear.....If a man cheats on his wife or a wife cheats on her husband....It has nothing to do with the spouse that was cheated on!!!! NO MATTER WHAT!! If a spouse is not happy and they can not find it in their hearts to try to find happiness some way and hold their family together.....GET A DIVORCE!!!! WHAT IS HAPPENING TO THE FAMILY UNIT!!!????Young men look up to these jackasses that are ruining the family unit!!!It is up to our selves to make our own selves happy!! I understand we find joy being with our spouses but it is a choice to be happy and find happiness! If you do not have trust in a marriage...you marriage is weak and unstable! It is also a choice to have standards and morals!!! The Lord has set guidelines for ALL of us BUT.... HE has also given us our agency!! We are only in charge of our own agency!! Being a mother I can teach my children and grand children standards and morals BUT...It is up to them to choose how they want to live their lives!! I really think now a days parents need to talk to their children about some of these men that their kids know and hear about! We need to make sure our kids have a solid foundation of the family unit! Have open conversations with your kids! So back to this new mental illness.... "HYERSEXUAL MENTAL DISORDER"....Is it real or is it an excuse for completely..... inappropriate.... non caring..... bad behaviors!!!
hology and many other classes as I was preparing to work in the operating room along the side of a doctor! Does this make me an authority in mental health issue...NO! I am sure I am wrong BUT..... I also feel there is not a new mental illness that is called Hyper-Sexual Mental Disorder! I understand addictions! Yes there are people who struggle in sex and pornography addictions! In my calling of eight plus years....working with Family Service and ALL of the addiction and recovery programs.... I do know that addictions can be very hard to over come no matter if it is a natural processed addiction or a chemical or alcohol addiction! BUT.....I think they should name this new addiction, "NOT HYPER SEXUAL DISORDER"! I think they should name it HYPER-I HAVE A HUGE EGO-DON'T CARE WHO I HURT-PRIDE-I CAN PAY ANYONE ANY AMOUNT OF MONEY-NO STANDARDS AND MORALS- I AM A DOG AND I FINALLY GOT CAUGHT-DISORDER!!!! SERIOUSLY.... Every time I hear this term "Hyersexual Mental Disorder" I literally see red flames!!! I know their have been women who have cheated on their spouse and they are just called.....How do I put it......I will leave it at immoral and a tramp!!! Even in Hollywood!! But when it comes to a man in Hollywood or a big sports star or in government places....It is now called "Hypersexual Mental Disorder!! Yes I will agree that they have a mental disorder....But it is not a hyper sexual disorder!! It is that their head is just way to big along with their prideful non-caring ego!! These men do not think that they have to have ANY RULES, STANDARDS and MORALS!!!! THEY DO NOT CARE!!!! These men just KNOW... that standard and morals just do not apply to them!!! I really think....they think they are of a higher law!!! AND THEN....When they are caught...... They stay in their house until there publicist can find a "SO CALLED" rehabilitation center that will build tunnels and canopies all around so these men can enter like cowards!! Do you think they really have a change of heart???? UUHHMMMM.... NO!!! They are just buying time till things die down a little and then they get a "HYPER SEXUAL MENTAL DISORDER" diagnosis AND THEN.... The publicist gets them to say"SORRY" and no one is allowed to ask any questions of them at this time either!!!!!!! REALLY..... HYPER SEXUAL MENTAL DISORDER!!! The only real diagnosis that these men have or should I say caused is....Complete trauma and betrayal! They have ruin their wives and children's thought of a family! It causes such long tern mental issues for their families and sometime they never recover from the hurt and pain!! It is hard for wives and children to ever trust again!!!! The daughters of these men will think this is what could happen to me if I get married, and when and if... they do get married they have a relationship where they feel like they have to be a detective instead of a wife!!!! The boys standards are weakened because they think well if my dad did made bad choices and eventually remarried and come out okay so.... if I get caught I will still work it out some way OR they never marry!Kids that come from these kinds of family have a higher rate of alcohol and drug abuse!! The wives and mothers end up taking the hit ALWAYS!!! They are left trying to forgive the husband for not only what he did to her but their children and their whole family!!!! The wife is left wondering what she did wrong!!! Let me make this crystal clear.....If a man cheats on his wife or a wife cheats on her husband....It has nothing to do with the spouse that was cheated on!!!! NO MATTER WHAT!! If a spouse is not happy and they can not find it in their hearts to try to find happiness some way and hold their family together.....GET A DIVORCE!!!! WHAT IS HAPPENING TO THE FAMILY UNIT!!!????Young men look up to these jackasses that are ruining the family unit!!!It is up to our selves to make our own selves happy!! I understand we find joy being with our spouses but it is a choice to be happy and find happiness! If you do not have trust in a marriage...you marriage is weak and unstable! It is also a choice to have standards and morals!!! The Lord has set guidelines for ALL of us BUT.... HE has also given us our agency!! We are only in charge of our own agency!! Being a mother I can teach my children and grand children standards and morals BUT...It is up to them to choose how they want to live their lives!! I really think now a days parents need to talk to their children about some of these men that their kids know and hear about! We need to make sure our kids have a solid foundation of the family unit! Have open conversations with your kids! So back to this new mental illness.... "HYERSEXUAL MENTAL DISORDER"....Is it real or is it an excuse for completely..... inappropriate.... non caring..... bad behaviors!!!
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